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The allure of a moderate look

Long blond hair, a skimpy pink dress, high heels, and big boobs have a certain allure to the common crossdresser, and I am the first one to admit that. But sometimes, I just want to take on a more moderate look, less flashy, less risky (if you happen to care more for passing than for humiliation), but no less feminine that is. 

On this day in April 2024, Franziska picked her brunette wig, a lovely and unobtrusive knee-length, cottony dress with covered shoulders, and some nicely color-matched wedge sandals, with moderate heel. And off she went to enjoy a day out on the town with a little highlight and new experience in the evening.


Portraits of the day


At the local bus stop, having asked a fellow passenger to take a photo. Again, this is one of my earlier CDH contributions. Franzi’s public pictures at CDH tend to cover the most recent outing, weeks or months before I am able to cover the whole day and story here in my blog. You can find a link to the most recent contribution as the top referral under “Blogs that I follow.”


Some people really know how to take great pictures. Not so this sales lady from the ice-cream parlor that I had asked to take this photo. She cut of my lower legs and feet, as well as the top of the word “Eis” (ice, as well as ice cream in German). It could have been a nice story-telling picture. Could have!


In this blog, I regularly make reference to Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, Germany’s best-known poet, playwright, theater director, and scientific writer, who was born in Frankfurt. Today, we need to talk about Schiller, the statue of whom stands in "Taunusanlage" – a narrow park stretching from the former ECB (European Central Bank) headquarter, close to the Frankfurt Opera House to Alte Oper Frankfurt. Friedrich Schiller, a contemporary and friend of Goethe, was a German poet, philosopher, playwright, essayist, and medical scientist, to whom we owe the poem “Das Lied von der Glocke” (Song of the bell), which my generation still had to memorize and recite in middle school, as well as the historic dramas “Wallenstein,” “Maria Stuart,” and “Wilhelm Tell.” He also wrote the lyrics to what later became the European anthem “Ode an die Freude” (Ode to joy), composed by Ludwig van Beethoven. Enough culture and history for today. This is how Schiller looked, according to sculptor Johannes Dielmann.


“Alte Oper” Frankfurt, the old opera house of Frankfurt. All of you who regularly or occasionally read my blog, will have heard about “Alte Oper,” as this is one of Franzi’s favorite venues. The so-called Old Opera Frankfurt is nowadays used for concerts and musicals, rather than operas, as it was rebuilt – after severe WW-II damage – only in the 70’s and after the new Frankfurt Opera House had already been established. It provides very good acoustics and possesses a huge and beautiful pipe organ, which I have yet to hear in action. By the way, I do not know the depressed guy in the red polo shirt on the right and I didn't manage to photoshop him out. I would know ways to cheer him up, though.


You might have seen a picture of Franzi outside a hip wine bar in Frankfurt’s “New Old Town” the small section between “Römer” (historic town square) and “Dom” (cathedral). This is on the inside of this very wine bar. And guess what, pink crémant is in order!


No outing without a stop at some shopping location – just for good measure.


In the evening, Franziska joined the monthly meeting of the Transgender Freundeskreis Frankfurt (http://tgf-frankfurt.de/impressum.html) for the first and – so far – only time. It was fun to meet other TG folks of all color. The meeting took place at a Persian restaurant – of all places to have a TG meeting! – and we were some 8 to 10 in total.


I very much enjoyed the exchange with all of them, but I was most impressed with a seasoned part-time crossdresser, who’s gone out en femme for many decades. She looked great, dressing her age, being at ease, and through that provided me with an enjoyable vision of how things could develop for me as well.





Comments

  1. Nice photos, Franzi.

    The guy you thought was depressed is actually shielding his eyes that were dazzled by your beauty and elegance! He has had a vision of transgender heaven and will never be the same again! If Schiller were alive today, I am sure he would write a magnificent poem about this man's condition and how it reflects all human life, hopes and dreams, the vanity of dividing male from female and the harmony and freedom of the future. Am I right?

    The Frankfurt trans group could be a lot of fun and a Persian restaurant sounds like a good idea. People from Asia and the Middle East like trans women / crossdressers way more than people from a Christian tradition, I find.

    You've persuaded me that I really must visit Frankfurt.

    Sue x

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    1. Dear Sue, Thanks for your wonderful and poetic comment and the many many compliments therein. I am somewhat flabbergasted. Unfortunately, I have not been able to go back to meet with the group. They have a monthly meeting and it would be a coincidence if that would correspond with one of the maybe 10-15 days out and about per year that I manage to squeeze in my otherwise pretty busy life. Love, Franzi PS: You describe Schillers blend of drama, poetry and philosophy just perfectly. You must be a writer yourself :-) PPS: I love the pictures of you as a Silver Witch.

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    2. Yes, I am a writer. I specialise in ideas from one author reused by another. And I'm currently helping a musicologist with Italian texts set to music by Beethoven who, of course, also set some of Schiller's poems and phrases. If I continue in this project it may be useful for me to visit Bonn maybe next spring ... and Frankfurt is on the way there. I'll send you a private message.

      Do please leave comments on my blog when you visit, Franzi. It helps me know what people are enjoying reading about. :-)

      Looking forward to your next adventure.

      Sue x

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  2. Oh, I love Persian food - such amazing tastes with the spices, flavours, and textures. That and it arriving as a steady series of shared dishes. Good for the soul but the waste line? Not so much 😉

    Sounds like you had a grand day out and good to hear you met up with people in the community too.

    If it's okay to say, the cat eye glasses really suit you and loving the hair & outfit combo.

    PS: I'm trying to remember if we managed to stop off in Frankfurt - it's been a while!

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    1. Dear Lynn, Thanks for visiting my blog again and for your comment and compliment. I also think that glasses can provide a great feminine touch to an outfit - the same way a matching scarf does. And I love playing with both elements. If you happen to visit Frankfurt (again), check in with me to see if I am available to get together - maybe even together with Sue 😀 Love, Franzi

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